The unrelenting weight of my knowledge and experience of anti-Black racism in educational settings loomed over me and influenced my decisions as a parent. Unfortunately, this is something that will be familiar to many Black parents. At the same time, I consciously refused to allow interpersonal and institutional anti-Blackness to rob my child of his right to a joyful and free Black childhood. Whatever he expressed an interest in, I supported him a thousand percent in exploring. I encouraged his creativity and agency in all areas of his life.

When we work in community, and center our shared humanity and connection, we begin to access hope and joy in the work.